User Safety Guidelines

1. Personal Safety Guidelines

Your safety is our top priority. Please follow these guidelines when using our platform:

Before Meeting

  • Verify the identity of the person you're meeting
  • Meet in a public place first if possible
  • Tell a trusted friend about your plans
  • Trust your instincts - if something feels wrong, don't proceed
  • Establish clear boundaries and expectations

During Meetings

  • Keep your phone charged and accessible
  • Stay alert and aware of your surroundings
  • Don't accept drinks or substances from strangers
  • Respect boundaries and expect the same
  • Have a safety plan and exit strategy

2. Online Safety

Protect yourself while using our platform:

  • Don't share personal information like your home address or financial details
  • Use the platform's messaging system initially
  • Be cautious of requests for money or financial information
  • Report suspicious behavior immediately
  • Keep records of conversations for your protection

3. Red Flags to Watch For

Be alert to these warning signs:

  • Pressure to meet immediately or in isolated locations
  • Requests for money upfront or unusual payment methods
  • Refusal to provide identification or verification
  • Inconsistent information or stories
  • Aggressive or threatening behavior
  • Requests to engage in illegal activities

4. Health and Wellbeing

Protect your physical and mental health:

  • Practice safe sex and get regular health checkups
  • Set clear boundaries about services you will/won't provide
  • Take breaks when needed
  • Seek support if you're struggling
  • Know your rights and legal protections

5. Emergency Contacts

Keep these numbers easily accessible:

  • Emergency Services: 999
  • National Domestic Violence Helpline: 0808 2000 247
  • Samaritans: 116 123
  • Modern Slavery Helpline: 08000 121 700
  • NHS Direct: 111

6. Privacy Protection

Safeguard your privacy:

  • Use a separate phone number for business
  • Consider using a P.O. Box for correspondence
  • Be selective about what personal information you share
  • Regularly review and update your privacy settings
  • Use secure payment methods

7. Reporting Safety Concerns

If you encounter safety issues:

  • Report dangerous users immediately
  • Document incidents with screenshots and details
  • Contact platform administrators
  • Report serious crimes to police
  • Seek support from appropriate services

8. Support Resources

Access support when needed:

  • Counseling and mental health services
  • Legal advice and representation
  • Healthcare providers familiar with sex work
  • Peer support groups
  • Exit services if you want to leave the industry

9. Working Safely

If you're providing services:

  • Screen clients thoroughly
  • Work from a safe location
  • Have safety protocols in place
  • Keep business and personal life separate
  • Maintain professional boundaries

10. Contact Us

For safety concerns or support: [email protected]